Summer is here—and so are your kids. All day. Every day. As beautiful as sunshine and freedom sound, summer break can be a serious challenge for single moms trying to juggle it all without losing their minds. The routines change, the kids are full of energy, and “Mom, I’m bored” becomes a daily chant.
But mama, take a breath. You’re not alone. And you’re not expected to be a full-time entertainer, chef, housekeeper, and CEO of summer operations all by yourself. This season is about more than just survival—it’s about finding small ways to thrive.
Reset the Routine (But Keep One)
It’s okay if your regular school-year routine is out the window. Instead, create a flexible summer version that gives your day some shape:
- Morning Routine: Have a calm start. Make beds, have breakfast together, and outline the day.
- Midday Plans: Rotate between screen-free time, crafts, reading, or quiet time.
- Evening Wind-Down: Keep a consistent bedtime routine to maintain peace and structure.
Budget-Friendly Summer Activities
You don’t need big bucks to make memories:
- Local Parks & Splash Pads
- Library Programs & Summer Reading Clubs
- DIY Backyard Campouts
- Nature Walks & Scavenger Hunts
- Picnic Lunches at home or in a nearby green space
Carving Out “Mom Time”
Yes, it’s possible. Even if only in short bursts:
- Wake up 15–30 minutes before the kids to pray, stretch, journal, or sip your coffee in peace.
- Set “quiet time” every day where kids read or play independently while you recharge.
- Trade playdates with another trusted mom for a short kid-free window.
Embrace the Imperfection
You don’t have to do it all. Let the dishes wait. Let the house get a little messy. Say no when you need to. Your value isn’t tied to how organized or creative your summer is.
Some days will be magical. Others will be meltdown-filled. Both are okay.
Pour Into You Too
Remember, your energy sets the tone for your home. Take moments to care for your heart:
- Put on your favorite playlist
- Dress up just for you
- Read scripture or affirmations
- Say out loud: *”I’m doing my best, and that is enough.”
This summer, let’s give ourselves permission to rest, laugh, and grow. You are doing an incredible job, and your children will remember the love—not the schedule. Keep showing up, mama. That’s more than enough.
With love,
The Resilient Mom